married life: How to be a successful real

Successful marital relationship, are those which are based on a true partnership between two people and sincere loving, can not be established without the investment. To access your married life and successful must invest time and energy, to show the positive and openness.

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In these moments, during your reading of this article, they put aside all your thoughts, feelings, emotions and beliefs that you have about the term "marital life private," and helped yourselves to establish the relationship that you desire in your life, the marital relationship appropriate for you. Even if you came out just marital relationship, and even if it were not never have a serious relationship, you can set up a real marital relationship, conscious and supportive.
What is the real marital relationship? The marital relationship is a real genuine partnership between two people chose, each separately, consciously disdain over the external image that is not real and express who they really are, without masks and representation. Sometimes, the desire "to set up the relationship," we are trying to make us change ourselves to become the person that we think we need to be in order to love us, attracted to us and they want us.
For example, the man who believes that women do like men cruel trying to show himself as a macho man and a tough, or if a woman believes that men love women Sylphs, they will try to adopt the lightness and the show itself as such even if it were not UMD calls it natural. The important thing is that we can not "play the game" all our lives and pretend that we are someone else. This image can not be kept for a long time within the marital life private, and eventually go back to the original pattern of our lives, and the pair discover that we are not well, it follows that many consequences.
Only a true understanding of it can lead us to act and to be Hakiqin as much as possible, without masks and without representation: This is a high level of sophistication, and from which you can build real relationships and strong that form the basis for the growth and development of the joint. True relationship is a partnership of empowerment, acceptor and filled with love for the husband, just as he / she is, with the pros and cons. Relationship stemming from the depths, of listening, open communication, acceptance and openness to change and evolve together and separately within the marital life private.
Create the desired relationship in our imagination: they tried to feeling the essence of love and the relationship that you desire. Imagine Baklkm marital relationship that want them. What do you want to be in this relationship? For example: love, attention, sensitivity, initiative, independence and so on. How do you want to feel? Will you add any quality to the relationship? For example: love, depth, partnership and so on. They set up the essence of this relationship in your imagination, Feel as if it were already in place in your life. Felt

 ?this sense of something tangible and real. How do you feel

Solve problems in different relationships: If you feel that something is "stuck" in the marital relationship have, and despite attempts ye are not able to form a relationship that want them, search the well if there is any problem in your relationship that have not been resolved, and that deplete your energy. These can be a relationship with the parents or the children, relationship with friend / her former / her. Every relationship is important to you where problems, deplete your energy and hinder your quest to create a new relationship.
To complete the "purification" of such relationship within the marital life private, can hold a conversation complete or clarify: If this is not possible for you, tried to write an Tfsalon where every thing that comes into your mind about the relationship with him, whatever you want to say to him in the past and did not Tcoloh. Expressed in this letter about your feelings, anger or love, even if the message did not give it at all, Writing will enable you to clean up and update the relationship of Nahitkm. Even if it is one-sided at the moment, you can save energy in this way.
Invest time, energy and focus: Invest time, energy and focus to create a relationship that want them. Must devote time to set up a focused and clear intention for the essence of the relationship that you desire, the time to examine what "did not work" for you so far, and give it up, time to meet, come together or entertainment. Invested energy and work, be ready for social encounters, dating sites, workshops, get out of the house, get out for a walk, a chance to let you access. For example, if you do you do throughout the day until 22:00 or specialist time and energy to social activities, dating or any another meeting, there Ttfaji of the marital relationship is not available to you.
Raise vital: Be aware of whether you feel the vitality in your life. Do you feel a sense of joy and elation? Are you doing things that Thbunha? Banas and surrounded Ichdjaokm Idamokm? If you feel that you are not vital enough, unhappy and dissatisfied - invested in raising satisfaction and positive in your life. Whenever you raise yourselves up, you will you will be full of energy, creativity and vitality, feel good about yourself and people will be attracted to you more.
People are attracted to a good thing, and vital to the positive: 'Make it for yourself in any way: physical activity, courses and activities, doing things that Thbunha, spending time with people dear to you, to contribute to the public service or any work of another important, to devote quality time to yourselves . In addition, and equally important, sure to personal development procedure, increase self-awareness have in every way possible: sessions of the same soul, and workshops for personal development, meditation, talks with close friends, personal training, treatment, or any other means that can notify to your mind.
Feelings can be misleading - learned how to discern the truth: they learned can count on your feelings and Hdskm. Learned how to examine the motive behind the "What do you feel it's true" and what is not true, learned to distinguish the real marks instead of walking or dragged behind your wishes Wares. Miyazawa source of intuition: Is this a fact or an honest internal and lust and sucked passionate, which can be devastating? For example, if the delay in meeting the man for the first sign of this is that it is "not serious" for the marital relationship. Pay attention to these signs and acted according to the real feelings.
Put border: Some of you certainly has a long list of features that you would like to be found at the Zojkm in the future and this is excellent. However, it is important to keep grading and distinguish between what is necessary and what can be tolerated by a little bit. What you're not ready to abandon him in the marital relationship? What are the red lines for you? What are the things that are necessary for you to be in the marital relationship? What you can not afford and do not want to bargain? Any behavior of the partner / E of your lives you will not be ready for approval or ignored? Checked your relations in the former, what did not work in it? Put new limits on what you are serving today.
That you will be open: They believed that the marital relationship that want them are possible and that your life partner exists somewhere. Even if you are confident that the prospects of finding it slim, "Give a chance" and believe that there is one person like that, at least. Give a chance and be ready and flexible about how to meet your life partner. That may be a way of totally unexpected, such as the make known to you upon your parents or that they received in the grocery store.
Announcement of all: Be transparent, Hakiqin, adopted a policy that says that there is nothing conceal, there is nothing to be ashamed of it, this is the reality, and this is the truth - I'm looking for marital relationship! Do not be ashamed to proclaim in front of friends, family, on the internet or coworkers that you are looking for a genuine marital relationship and marital life private. This is the view and the intent is clear and honest, have the ability to open the door of opportunity.
 The growth and evolution of the marital relationship: If you are interested in personal development and marital status, what do you mean you thought the marital relationship in relation to the joint development and self-development. The marital relationship is a wonderful field of evolution, marital Flaguetkm will constitute an excellent mirror for you, and perhaps the greatest teacher you, if you wish to do so.
Lesson: Everything is back bigger than you Bmentoj Tstthmron or cultivate. If "Zratm" Love in the past or now (you love someone, you are granted the love or Aatneetm someone love), it will return to you the love of the largest (someone will loves), it can come back in a different way from the way that you love them, and it can be It takes a long time, such as the time it takes to plant seedlings to grow from seed. It does not happen immediately. Look yourselves with what you are looking for quality at Zojkm / TCM, and Begin to make it for yourself. All Artem get it - they gave him for yourselves and for others.
Clear knowledge and the certain that it will happen: You must set up a clear knowledge and definite that you will find the right partner for you, and that you are mature and ready, and full-time for it, and that it will happen soon because it's about maturity, readiness and preparedness of both spouses. When the knowledge exists without the slightest doubt, you will bring up the relationship that you desire.