Affect different pressures of life of the child in a negative way, as well as affecting adults. The effect of pressure and family problems for the child, which in many aspects, including the pain of the child in the stomach, nervousness, nightmares and withdrawal from sitting down with the group and lack of sleep and changes in the food habits of the child in addition to the low level of the school. You must learn to be a mother to your child feels the same pressures that can be felt by an adult, but in return will not be able to deal with those pressures appropriate mechanism.
Pressure felt by the child to be the body's reaction to a certain position makes it feel not to balance in his life. Among the problems and family pressures that may adversely affect the child, for example: loss of function of a parent, divorce, family fights, and the death of someone close, or the arrival of a new member in the family. If the father or the mother working, come back to realize that the child's sense of loneliness and his inability to communicate with them may make it feel different pressures.
Parents should in general and in particular the mother to take notice as well if there are any changes in the behavior of her child. For example, a mother to worry if you find that her child, who is essentially a social figure and love to get out may become isolated or suddenly began to lose his temper when he speaks with his friends.
Must also be alert parents to the quality of threads that may discuss them in the presence of the child or in front of him. May sometimes be useful for the child to be familiar with what is happening in the family and watching how adult people understanding and solving their problems, but people are also aware that the child does not have the skills or life experiences necessary to deal with different situations that may affect it negatively.
If you notice any changes in your child, such as feeling anxious and durable that it may begin to act in a negative way in school, you must search thoroughly for any problems within the family may represent a strain on your child. I know that you also have to be very sensitive child any tension in the relationship between his father and mother, whether this tension represented in public brawls or internal tensions affect the shape of the relationship. Even if the father and mother believe that the problems of these common problems, is for the child to be different and sometimes poignant because the child may inflate things and problems. Sometimes you may hear the child and his father and mother quarreling loudly some thing to come out of the conclusion of the special, which will be separated.
? How do you make your child overcome the pressures and family problems
- Allow your child to express himself and his feelings so that he can deal with the problems and pressures of family in a better way. ĘŢČáí your child's feelings, but at the same time setting limits for him, you can not tell him, for example, you understand the cause of his anger and his sister, but not right to beat him.
- Select a date for the weekly meeting with the family to ensure some special time with your child. You should note that, for example, children who eat meals with the family is different more successful in terms of tuition fees and academic.
- In an attempt to discuss with your child's problems and different pressures, but in a positive way. If you, for example, discuss Anfsalk from his father to him can you tell him that even though you are not the father, living in the same house anymore, but I can photograph will take care of him and give him the love and affection without feeling anger or hatred.
- To your child that you are watching you deal with the problems and pressures in a positive manner represented in your practice to exercise and take care of yourself and talk about your feelings honestly
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